Sunday, July 27, 2008
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// the art of moving on
heartaches are inevitable..
for memories may sometimes grab you by the heart..
squeezing out the remains..
don't feel shattered by what you've lost..
what's no longer yours isn't so bad after all..
you get to pick up the pieces and walk on ahead with life..
be optimistic about it..
changes can be good, just keep an open mind..
there's bound to be times when you feel incomplete and alone..
there may be even times when you wish you're able to rewind back..
reliving the days of bliss.. still, in hopes of a lasting relationship..
thinking that it shouldn't have ended so soon..
such a tearjearker, isn't it?
don't put yourself down any more..
what's meant to be yours will eventually come back to you..
regardless of how long it may take..
and what's not meant to be..
you just have to let it go..
the decision lies in fate..
live each day as it comes with no expectations..
keep yourself occupied to fill up the void inside..
you may not realise this..
but how much have you drained yourself for someone else..
trying to keep up with his pace..
constantly changing to be a better person.. not for you, but for him.
and how about the efforts you threw in to be a better girlfriend..
weighing yourself down to make the relationship work..
at the end of the day, nothing was ever enough.
while everything just kept revolving around your ex-significant other..
when was the last time you actually did something for yourself and actually felt good doing it?
it's time to focus on you..
everything you do from this day forth..
do it for your own benefits..
don't do it to please anyone else but yourself.
start having goals in life..
and work towards it..
there's other things in life that'd make you feel complete..
rather than just a mere affection.
when it's over...
don't dwell on it.
whatever happened in your previous relationships..
there's always a few tips you could learn from..
just don't repeat the same mistakes again.
the world revolves around you right now..
stop procrastinating!
so what have you got planned so far?
spoken on
4:47 PM
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how you feel about yourself now (The Fool)
You feel discontent or uneasy and feel a need for a change in your life, a new direction, perhaps even an adventure. You might not know where you want to go, just that you don’t want to stay where you are. It's a time for optimism and major decisions - unexpected influences could have a powerful effect on your decision making. Ask yourself, is what you desire really the right thing for you? 
what you most want at this moment (The Hermit)
The cards suggest s0litarystar, that what you most want at this time is to know what to do, as well as companionship or a lover as you feel somewhat lonely or isolated at the moment. Perhaps you are feeling exhausted and in need of a rest - if you have been ill this is a time for rest and recuperation. 
your fears (Wheel Of Fortune)
You are in fear of everything turning for the worse for you, perhaps you are experiencing a run of bad luck. You have to trust that most of what we fear never happens and as The Wheel of Fortune turns downwards against you, the wheel will naturally turn upwards again and bring good fortune to you too. This difficult phase will pass. 
what is going for you (The Magician)
If considering any new enterprise or relationship you will find the self-belief, confidence and ingenuity to make it a success. Perhaps a promotion or pay increase at work, or a strong feeling that if you were to choose to work for yourself, you truly believe you can make it work. Go for it! 
what is going against you (Death)
This is a time of anxiety, depression and fear with all the turmoil and distressing events happening in your life - it's time to show what you are made of. What has now come to an end leaves room for brand new beginnings in life, love and career. However radical events may be in your life, believe that life goes on and life is what you make of it. 
outcome (The World)
Success, fulfillment and conclusion are near at hand - the successful outcome to a venture, satisfaction in a relationship and efforts rewarded. It is a culmination of events and indicates material wealth and greater spiritual awareness. You may choose to buy that dream house or a wonderfully fulfilling relationship is on offer, enjoy!
spoken on
1:57 PM